The Beginning of TTC
We tried to conceive (TTC) last month on December 21, 2025 for the very first time. We initially said we were going to wait until February 2026, after a pre-planned trip, before we'd start trying. But life had it's course and the moment took us by surprise. We felt passionate, connected, and willing to give it a try. I wasn't sure where in my cycle I was before it happened. Turns out, it was 2 days after ovulation which meant there could still be a slight chance, but not as likely.
During the first week of January, we started counting down the days until a pregnancy test would be reasonable. My 'period day' came and nothing yet. I went out to brunch with my friend and on my way home, I began contemplating stopping by the pharmacy to pick up a test. For some reason, I decided to go home with the intention of grabing it later that evening when we go grocery shopping.
When I got home, I went to the bathroom and....I got my period. I wasn't devastated per say. I know conceiving is a journey of it's own. Many people have been trying for years and we were here simply being spontaneous. The idea of what it could've potentially meant made me unsure of how to feel. I don't think my husband had a reaction either, and that's probably because he's the type to not get prematurely excited about things. Since I'm a believer, I guess I kind of did want a hug of comfort (I guess??). We discerned if this was a sign of redirection. We believe it was a reminder that everything takes patience and faith. We both agreed we'd keep trying while better considering my cycle.
Today's ovulation day. We have tried a few times around this window, so we'll see.... :)